October 7, 2017
Blessed
I was involved in two conversations yesterday, and both
of them (at different times) were with persons of age 24-26. Both of these kids
were working people, as well as college students; the distinct difference in
them being that one of them was using the GI Bill from his service in the
Marine Corps, and the other was having her college paid 100% (through and up to
a completion of a Master's Degree!)
These two both say they enjoy talking to me, because
"that old guy knows some shit!" I laughed really hard when this was
repeated to me by another co-worker, because A) I am old, and B) I've got a lot
of mileage that gave me some knowledge and a little more wisdom than some
folks...The conversations that these two young people and I have had cover a broad range of topics, but two particular ones struck a chord on the neck of my mental guitar.
The first was the first kid (the Marine) saying that he never heard of such a thing as a black and white TV, and couldn't imagine a TV without a DVR, let alone a remote. I gave him a friendly speech on how different times were just 30 years ago. Before I was 15, we had a black and white TV in the living room with 3-4 channels. It is extremely coincidental that my brother posted a photo of one this morning on Face-book with a comment that said "I was the remote."
When I was 16, I had a black and white TV in my bedroom for playing games on my Atari 2600. You couldn't get much more cool than that.
The second conversation was with the young woman who is going to college to obtain a Master's in Nutrition and Dietetics (again; 100% paid). She was complaining that her parents and grandparents take so much of her time...always wanting to see her, talk to her, and take her to dinner.
I commented that when I was five, my grandparents had all passed, and my Dad too. I told her that I'd have given anything to have them in my life when I was older, and to have had my Dad when times were tough in the growing up experience. I told her she was blessed to have all of these folks still in her life, and to enjoy them while she can, because they won't be around for ever.
It makes me wonder what our parents, aunt and uncles, and definitely our grandparents, must have thought when we whined about things we were blessed to have in our younger years.